(The anus or asshole also contains a similar tight ring of muscle, called the "anal sphincter," which prevents us from messing ourselves as we go about our day) When a person is aroused, the muscles keeping their vagina "tight" relax, allowing it to open wide, stretch, and accept a dildo, penis, or a variety of other toys and objects.
Have fun, and go slow. Try not to touch your dick if that’s what you’re working with, it might help you initially, but I find after I cum, I don’t want anything in there anymore, and it stops [the] play.
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You can insert quite a long dildo but you must go slow. You have to get past another muscle group to get into the sigmoid colon, then if it's like about 18-20 inches (whew!) it has to go past another curve to get into the descending colon. This is possible if you go slow and use a LOT of lube, like J-lube for instance.
Most people don’t care about going past their sigmoid bend. Anal play is plenty fun if you stay in your rectum, so why bother going deeper? You are not most people. The Right Tool. It’s possible to snake past your sigmoid bend and train yourself to go deeper. But it requires practice and, above all, the right tool. You need a toy that’s. Long; Slim
Slowly the sigmoid valve will open. The dildo should start to slide easily for another few inches. It may slide all the way in at this point, or you may hit another curve. It all depends on your physiology, and size. If you hit another bend, do the same as the last, push, wait. There's no sphincter there, just a bend. It should go thru.
Girth really isn't an issue. I have buttplugs thicker than 99% of guys that are fine, so I'm not worried about that. The issue is length. I have a buttplug that's 7" and I can take it to the base, but if I try to go deeper with a different toy it gets really really painful and I have to stop, no matter how slow I take it or how turned on I am.
A quick google image search for 'horse dildo' or 'uses long dildo' will reveal A TON of people putting very long dildos wayyyy up their butt. Companies like tantus also sell dildos like 'The cowboy' that are 15 inches long and in the reviews people say they love to take the whole thing up their butt.
5. Location: US. Well, a 10" dildo is way beyond what the average guy would be prepared to take. There's a thread in the reference section of the forum here that talks about the "second sphincter". The two sphincters are so close together anatomically that most guys really aren't aware of there's two sphincters.
Stretch a little bit at a time and go a little deeper every time you do it. Eventually you’ll get it, and there is no feeling in the world that can compare. As long as you’re careful and do your homework, it’s pretty safe.